We sing about
it, write about it and watch movies about it, but when you think about it, falling
in love is crazy and maybe even weird ^.^
It makes us feel
and do things we usually wouldn't under any other circumstances.
First of all, it
physically affects our hormones and brain. In fact, scientists have shown
that love affects the brain in a way similar to cocaine addiction. Not only
that, it also affects us psychologically and behaviorally.
Here are 10
crazy, weird symptoms you may experience when falling in love:
1. You wake up and go to sleep thinking of
someone other than yourself.
From the moment
you wake up in the morning to the moment you go to sleep at night, the person
you love occupies at least some part of your mind. How does your brain even
know to think of that person first thing in the morning? Doesn't it have other
more important things to worry about?
The truth is
this phenomenon is usually subconscious and automatic, almost like your mind is
programmed to do so. Even throughout the day, that person stays staunchly in
the back of your mind.
As crazy as it
may be, it is nice to think of someone beside you every once in a while.
2. You smile when you're alone.
We've all seen them: the smile texters. Smile texting is the perfect example of what happens when you're falling in love. You experience weird, giddy feelings of happiness, even when you're not physically with that special person.
When you fall in love, your cheeks flush, your heart beats faster, your palms are sweaty and your head starts spinning. This is all thanks to a rush of chemicals and hormones that flood your brain and body when you fall in love.
You might smile when he or she texts you, when you hear a certain song, see a picture on Facebook or when you just think of that person.
In general, little things like that will make you smile more than usual because you are just so blissfully in love (and because of all those happy hormones flowing through your bloodstream).
People may look at you funny and wonder why you're so happy, but you don't even mind.
3. Your hormones go wild.
3. Your hormones go wild.
This leaves you with feelings of euphoria similar to an endorphin-induced “runner's high.”
here's nothing you can do about this; love physically makes you crazy.
4. You become a little obsessive.
People in love,
love to think about each other. They somehow manage to relate even the smallest
things to the person they love. If your life is the universe, then chances are,
your love is the sun, and everything revolves around that.
5. You do embarrassing things.
Ever heard those
sappy stories of boys in the olden days throwing rocks at a girl's window, and
playing her songs on their guitar? That was then, but today, there are videos
all over YouTube of men proposing to their fiancés with elaborate flash mobs
that take place in front of hundreds of people.
Love will make
you do embarrassing things because when you're falling in love with someone,
you will do almost anything to make him or her happy, no matter what other
people may think.
6. You do things outside of your comfort zone.
Along the same
lines, falling in love will make you do things you never even considered doing
before. Boys, that may mean taking a yoga class or going to get a pedicure
with your girlfriend (they feel really good, it's okay to admit it).
Girls, that may
mean watching “SportsCenter” for two hours or playing a couple games of FIFA.
Of course, doing these things can open your mind to new activities you might
enjoy. Doing them with the one you love is a great bonding experience, too.
7. You suddenly care more about your appearance.
Before, you may
have rolled out of bed and thrown on some athletic shorts and a t-shirt, but
you now have a reason to try to look good.
You might comb
your hair more often, double check to make sure you didn't forget deodorant,
shave more meticulously and go to the gym, instead of falling asleep on your
couch after work.
8. You sing.
When you're
falling in love, you feel so happy and carefree, you can't always keep it
inside. Whether you sound like William Hung or Ariana Grande, sometimes, you
just have to sing at the top of your lungs to let it all out.
9. You go out of your way.
You may find
yourself driving out of the way to pick up your love's favorite dinner, or
calling in sick to work just to hang out with him or her.
The crazy part
is that even though these things may inconvenience you, you're happy and
excited to do them. You actually take joy in making that extra effort to please
your SO and show him or her how much you care.
10. You go blind.
As the old adage
goes, love is blind. When you're falling in love, everything your love does and
says is interesting and amazing. Every word uttered from his or her mouth, and
every move he or she makes, is magical.
Love blinds you
to faults and screwups, and even when you do notice them, you're quick to
forgive because your love can do no wrong. As it turns out, Ke$ha might be
right about this one: Love is a drug.
It makes us
crazy, but it also makes us happy. Love is exciting; it's addicting, it's
confusing and it's weird.
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